You can't put a price on a woman's worth?
Ladies it is our jobs to know what we are worth we can not allow anyone to put a price on our worthiness. As women we have to make many sacrifices in our lives and when it all boil down is it worth it? I had the chance to sit and talk with my pastor and he explained to me from the bible how a woman should be treated and I just started crying because I realized that I have never been treated the way a woman should according to the bible. A lot of women including myself have been mistreated in their lives and start to loose their since of being worthy enough to be treated good and with respect. Sometimes life experiences can be overwhelming "so, I ask you ladies" is it all worth it?Should you have sex with a person you don't love just to make them happy, Should you be willing to go to jail over another persons crime, should you put your religious beliefs to the side so that you can be with the one you love, should you take the verbal physical and mental abuse because you are in love, Should you put your sleep on hold, should you allow other peoples problems to bring you down, should you try to change your ways to please others, should you lie about your feelings to make the other person feel better, should you drop out of school to raise your child, should you work these street corners to get your next meal, should you walk in your shoes until they're worn to the ground so that you can afford new ones for your kids, should you wear clothes that are old and too small so that you can afford clothes for your kids, should you do drugs to get you pass each stressful day, should you just give up or hang in there when times are hard? These are some of the questions that women I know have asked me. And, my answer is: I think that as women we are built strong and I think it's good to do things for a loved one but you should never have to jeopardize or sacrifice your heart, well being, faith, love, and trust to make that person happy~ I feel like if a person truly cares for you, you should never have to sacrifice your worth to prove yourself to them, if anything they should be showing you that all your sacrifices,stress,support and love was all worth it and that it isn't just a waste of time.
Saturday, August 08, 2009
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This is a good post girl, glad to see you still have time to write, I look forward to all your posts because they are always good :)
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