Never feel guilty about having a weak moment however, try to learn from that moment.
A lot of us beat ourselves up over weak moments I say forget it and move on. I think we learn the most about ourselves when we reach a breaking point whether it's a relationship with a loved one, school, work, or just life's everyday BS. "Life can break us down if we let it". I have had to be strong for so long and just let the BS people do to me slide and still find the good in everyone but I have come to realize that allowing people to treat me wrong because I am trying to stay strong and positive is not healthy mentally. I have found that the harder I try to stay strong and positive the more people try to push me too that limit. My most recent weak moment came in the form of someone really close to me deceiving me my heart was crushed, I felt alone, I felt betrayed, disappointed, and angry which caused me to loose my cool. Although I had every right to feel these emotions I beat myself up over the situation asking myself "what could I have done different to avoid the outcome?" I realized that while I was stressing about the situation the other person had moved on with their lives and wasn't regretting or thinking about the situation at all. My friend told me recently, that I need to change some of my ways and she was right instead of beating myself up over the BS other people do I should just forget it and move on. I am thankful that I have friends that are honest enough to let me know when I am having a weak moment. I am also thankful to my granny for introducing me to the lord because I wouldn't have made it through a lot of my weak moments without him. So my message to you is don't allow other people to determine the outcome of a situation always try to stay in control so that you don't end up regretting your actions!
Thursday, August 06, 2009
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Let me be the first to wish you a Happy VGNO!
I sometimes let people's comments affect me and sometimes I try to read things into their comments when I should just let them go! Good for you!
That is terrific advice! I'm happy to have hopped on over from VGNO tonight! :-)
Great advice! happy VGNO :)
Thank you all for responding to my blog. Each week I try to share some real life experiences to catch the attention of other who may be going through or have been through the things I have and I think as people we deal with things better when we know we are not the only one's in a particular situation. I am happy because the whole reason I started Sunshyne's world was to show ppl that you can go thru tough times and still have a successful and happy life and it's all based on my own personal experiences nothing I write is made up they are true facts and feeling and I appreciate VGNO for being attention to my site and also seeing other ppls blogs where I too can get advice!!!!!!
I find myself being too sensitive at times. Life's just too short to worry over it.
Happy VGNO
Great advice!
I find the best weapon is to act like you are unaffected- really makes them wonder!
Hope you had a great VGNO. I'm late, as always!
I agree that life is too short to let things bother you, but at the time of the incident it's hard to comprehend that thought!!!!(lol)however I def. will try harder not to let things bother me and try to act unaffected(lol). Thanks for the good advice-
Sunshyne-AB
Girl this is so true. I have had many moments like that in my life where I let things get to me when they shouldnt, thank god I am with a guy who has helped me to get over the way I used to think and act and helped to keep me focused on the one true way for me to completly happy, and thats to do me regardless of what others may say or do. Life is to be lived the way we want it to so we all need to do what we want and let others fall back and watch how its really done, lol. Ttyl girl, love the posts, they are so real and true, keep 'em coming.
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